Habits & Goals
Turn vague goals into experiments and design habits with cues, friction, and recovery.
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8 min readGoals that survive contact with reality
Most goals fail quietly, not dramatically — they just lose to time, energy, and competing responsibilities. A workflow for turning a vague goal into a testable two-week experiment, with AI as the stress-tester, not the motivator.
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9 min readDesign a habit with cues, friction, and a recovery rule
Motivation and streaks are not a habit-design system — they are what you fall back on when there isn't one. A workflow for designing a single habit around a cue, environment, and a recovery rule for the day it inevitably breaks.
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9 min readRead less, remember more: an AI-assisted reading loop
Asking AI to summarize a document is the fastest way to feel informed and forget everything by Friday. A reading workflow — preview, active questions, unaided recall, source-checked synthesis — that keeps you the one who understood the text.
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9 min readAfter redundancy or mid-life disruption: use AI for administration, not identity
The day your job ends, three different needs arrive at once: urgent paperwork, career questions, and emotional weight. AI can genuinely help with the first two if you keep them separate — and it cannot do the third at all.
New to AI
9 min readDeliberate practice with AI: feedback that makes you do the work
The fastest way to make AI-assisted practice useless is to ask for the answer before you have attempted the problem. A practice-loop workflow — subskill, attempt, rubric, feedback, retry — that keeps the effort where the learning actually happens.
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9 min readKeep your taste: AI in a creative practice
AI can accelerate almost every stage of a creative practice. That is exactly the problem: convenience does not ask whether a stage was where your judgement lived. A map for deciding what to accelerate, what to keep human, and how to handle copyright, consent, and disclosure along the way.
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9 min readA personal knowledge system that helps you retrieve, not hoard
Highlights, clippings, and AI summaries pile up without making you smarter. A small capture-to-retrieval system built around three real decisions — plus what to do about sensitive notes, other people's data, and the false privacy of a personal account.
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9 min readPlan with energy, not just time
A calendar with no free slots is not the same as a week that can actually hold hard thinking. A workflow for logging real energy patterns for a week and building a plan that puts demanding work where your capacity actually is.
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9 min readProcrastination as Friction: Find the Next Visible Action
Procrastination is usually a stuck point, not a character flaw. A six-branch friction diagnostic and a five-minute start turn an avoided task into one visible next action.
New to AI
9 min readBuild a skill curriculum from outcomes, not a pile of links
A method for turning a target capability into prerequisites, practice tasks, evidence, and review checkpoints — instead of a bookmark pile of courses you never finish.
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8 min readThe weekly review: find the patterns, keep the judgement
A repeatable weekly review that turns a week of scattered notes into evidence-backed themes and open loops — using AI to scan faster, not to decide what your week meant.
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8 min readCareer reinvention: map transferable evidence before chasing titles
A practical way to turn past work into evidence-backed capabilities, test a possible new direction, and identify the smallest credible next step without asking AI to choose your career.
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