Habit Design & Recovery Card
Use this for one habit at a time. Trying to design three habits at once usually produces zero.
1. The Habit, Precisely
- What you want to do:
- How often:
- Minimum version (the version you do even on a bad day):
2. The Cue
Pick something concrete and already-existing in your day — not “when I feel motivated.”
- Cue type (time / location / preceding action / existing habit):
- Exact cue:
- Where you will put a physical or digital reminder, if any:
3. Environment Change
Make the habit easier to start and the competing behavior harder to fall into.
| Make it easier | Make the alternative harder |
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4. Friction Audit
- Steps between “cue happens” and “habit starts” right now:
- Which step can you remove or pre-stage the night/hour before?
- What has caused you to skip this before, specifically?
5. Recovery Rule
Decide this now, while you are calm — not after you have already missed a day.
- If I miss one day, I will:
- I will not try to make up for a missed day by:
- The rule for getting back on track (e.g., “never miss twice in a row”):
6. Two-Week Evidence Log
Log context, not judgment. “Skipped, meeting ran long, phone was in another room” is useful. “Failed again, lazy” is not.
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7. Review After 14 Days
- Pattern in the misses (day of week, time, trigger):
- One change to the cue or environment for the next two weeks:
- Is this still the right habit to be working on?
Boundary
This card is for ordinary personal habits — exercise, reading, a work routine, a small daily practice. It is not a treatment plan for addiction, compulsive behavior, disordered eating, or a diagnosed psychiatric condition, and repeated failure at that scale is a signal to talk to a qualified professional, not to redesign the cue.